Being in a relationship with the same person for years can become tedious and unexciting which explains why an outside relationship may develop. These are some ideas you can use to rekindle the love in your relationship and make your partner want you more and more and still renew your first love.

Draw two stick figures walking together under a smiling sun. Your partner will appreciate this distinctive gift.

If your drawing isn’t faultless it doesn’t really matter, but show that you have put some effort into making it look nice and beautiful. Don’t forget to write your names above the figures. You should also draw a big heart and write inside it “I love you” or “I still love you”.

Your drawings should be placed and sealed in an envelope and addressed to your partner at her office. The importance of the contents can be highlighted by using a heading such as “For the urgent attention of Miss J Miller” It should be received by your partner at her office in the middle of a tiring and challenging day.

Arrange a picnic on a cool summer’s night: Spread a blanket on the floor and bring some chocolates, snacks and champagne. Lie down on the blanket and gaze at the stars as both of you enjoy the snacks, chocolates and champagne.

Your partner will be astounded if you deliver a long stemmed rose to her door. A short message should be attached such as “Thank you for coming into my life”.

Prepare your partner for a special massage: Purchase massage oil, a small box, coloured tissue paper and a blank card. Decorate the box with the tissue paper. Display the massage items on a table and write a message such as “Call me on (your phone number) if you want a sensual massage” upon the card.

Remember childhood memories: Walk into the park with your partner and give her a swing.

In the summer, buy two big water pistols and take them along with you to the beach. Each take one and have a big water fight with your partner.

Discover what your partner always wished for when she was young. Whatever she tells you buy it on her birthday.